When he is into you / When she is into you.

Most of my post are directed to woman. Why? Because I feel woman are more frustrated on the sense that man do not understand them. They expect them to read between the lines on what they are saying and on what they are expecting. We find ourselves working on a 24 hour clock trying to figure out what do woman want. Being emotional species themselves that at times makes things hard and they find it easier to express their emotions. I love me some woman whom in the midst of her emotional turmoil she can express them and be honest at the same time.

Hence I understand why woman love a man who can sit and listen to them while she go on and on about what have hurt her. From the beginning she will give you detail after detail and we man are impatient when it comes to this. We just want them to get to the point so we can find a solution to the problem. It takes a special kind of a man to have patience to allow her express her emotions. Because in order for her to feel better, she needs to release them all. Give her the time to talk and listen. Because if you do that she will love you even more.

When he is into you, he will pursue you and do the things that tickles you. He will create a routine that will make you to be secure about his love for you. The moment when that routine gets broken, that is an alarm that something is wrong. Man tend to do things when they are pursuing you and the moment you say yes, things change. You know that every Friday after work it is ice cream day. Every month end you receive flowers from him. He calls you in the morning and during the day, complementing that with a text and also at night before he sleeps. When he knocks off he lets you know.

It is not only man that creates routines and walk out of them. Woman do to. Braking a routine can alter your relationship. The things that you teach each other on, you must make sure you do them. Especially when you have gotten her. Keep pursuing her and securing her with your love. Never put a woman in a place where she begins to question your love. Same goes to woman. Relationship is hard work but it needs understanding why you are in it. First and foremost, you wont pursue someone that you do not think they are valuable.

Unless all your intentions are wrong in the first place. Ladies, be careful of a man who just want to get into your pants. This ones can create a routine as well. How do you notice him? Glad you have asked that question. Since the cookie is what he is after, I always recommend to ladies to never give it up too quickly. Sex do complicates things especially on the phase of getting to know each other. This kind are impatient. Eventually he will run out of patience and start the accusing/blaming game. He will try to guilt trip you by saying that you do not love him.

Any man that put you under pressure to have sex with, his not the one. Unless you want it as much as he does. If you are around my age, you definitely know that finding a woman whose not broken and who does not have baby daddy issues is quite rare. Same that goes with woman. Re-assuring each other is the primary goal. When he/she is into you, you wont struggle to see that. No matter how long it takes, the one who loves you will always fight to keep you.

Love is a beautiful thing.