Letting go
Easier said and done. Let go!! When you have fallen in love, this is hard to do. And the voices that whispers in your ear seems not to understand. I believe that all of us have experienced a break up. We all know how hard it is to let go and to move on. Unless when you have never fallen in love in the first place. Love is a powerful force that is not easily to be quenched. The facts are there, that this is over and it is not working but the love that you have says something else.
Maybe she will have a change of heart and come back to me. By that time this is what my heart keeps fooling it`s self. The world is moving but mine is stuck. I cannot sleep, food has lost it`s taste. Every now and then you keep asking yourself what is she doing. Did I not mean that much to her, for her to forget about me that easily. I want to call, I want to take a drive to her place. Listening to Lenny Williams and I am in agreement with him. "Maybe you have never been in love like I have been in love".
When you are in this situation, this is when you begin to realize what kind of friends you have. Misery loves company. You cannot go through this kind of heartbreak and have no one to talk to. You will go crazy trying to keep yourself sane. Especially coming from a relationship where you have invested so much emotionally. The stories that we read where Men end up killing their partners and themselves, it is because they keep it in.
You have to talk about it and pray about it. I have learned and experienced this, that once God speak over your situation, the weight becomes light. We love hard and we should not stop loving that way regardless of the pain we might experience. Love is a beautiful thing and once you decided that your going to let go and move on, go in faith as loving someone is a risk. We will never know what is ahead if we keep holding on to what is not working.
Fear can also play a role on us struggling to let go. I had so many fall outs with my partner and I kept on going back. For one, I love her. Two, I was afraid of her finding men who will bring harm to her. Do not get me wrong, I had my share on doing her wrong but protecting her was something I valued. Even in the midst of realizing that this is not working, I stayed. At some point love alone is not enough.
In my case it was not a matter of being unhappy. It is something more deeper than what is on the surface. If you check my other post, the is something I emphasise more about the importance of a man and a woman coming together in love. Breaking up is not easy so as letting go but that is something we need to live with as it happens in this life. Sit down and have a talk with yourself. Evaluate your situation and take love out of it. Ask yourself this question, is it worth it? Is it worth it to stay in that toxic relationship? Is it worth it to be undermined? Is it worth it that your dreams always get sidelined?
Let go and Move on.
Maybe she will have a change of heart and come back to me. By that time this is what my heart keeps fooling it`s self. The world is moving but mine is stuck. I cannot sleep, food has lost it`s taste. Every now and then you keep asking yourself what is she doing. Did I not mean that much to her, for her to forget about me that easily. I want to call, I want to take a drive to her place. Listening to Lenny Williams and I am in agreement with him. "Maybe you have never been in love like I have been in love".
When you are in this situation, this is when you begin to realize what kind of friends you have. Misery loves company. You cannot go through this kind of heartbreak and have no one to talk to. You will go crazy trying to keep yourself sane. Especially coming from a relationship where you have invested so much emotionally. The stories that we read where Men end up killing their partners and themselves, it is because they keep it in.
You have to talk about it and pray about it. I have learned and experienced this, that once God speak over your situation, the weight becomes light. We love hard and we should not stop loving that way regardless of the pain we might experience. Love is a beautiful thing and once you decided that your going to let go and move on, go in faith as loving someone is a risk. We will never know what is ahead if we keep holding on to what is not working.
Fear can also play a role on us struggling to let go. I had so many fall outs with my partner and I kept on going back. For one, I love her. Two, I was afraid of her finding men who will bring harm to her. Do not get me wrong, I had my share on doing her wrong but protecting her was something I valued. Even in the midst of realizing that this is not working, I stayed. At some point love alone is not enough.
In my case it was not a matter of being unhappy. It is something more deeper than what is on the surface. If you check my other post, the is something I emphasise more about the importance of a man and a woman coming together in love. Breaking up is not easy so as letting go but that is something we need to live with as it happens in this life. Sit down and have a talk with yourself. Evaluate your situation and take love out of it. Ask yourself this question, is it worth it? Is it worth it to stay in that toxic relationship? Is it worth it to be undermined? Is it worth it that your dreams always get sidelined?
Let go and Move on.
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