The danger of insecurity
Most relationships have been destroyed because of insecurity. Relationships that had a potential of turning out to be beautiful, have been destroyed because of this unhealthy behaviour. A behaviour we sometimes find it easier to ignore. People who are insecure never hide their feelings. They make their feelings known by expressing emotions and taking actions. Man who are insecure tend to be controlling. You will lose certain friends or family members because of it. Your life becomes that of a navigator. Everywhere you go he must know about it.
This comes because of lack of self believe. When one does not believe in themselves, a nut is a hard thing to crack. The possible becomes the impossible. He may tick all of your boxes because he is really that good but his insecure. He will accuse you of the worst while all you were doing was just for him. He may find you in the midst of male companies either friends or colleagues having a good time laughing and he might accuse you of cheating with one of them.
Insecurity is a disease. It can lead someone to commit suicide and jealousy becomes the branch that has the opportunity to bear fruit. Insecurity is a consuming fire. I can mention and identify a lot of bad things that goes in line with it. If one does not recognise this problem in their lives, what was supposed to be great will turn out to be not. Have you ever met someone who had the potential to become someone great or had an opportunity to be with someone great but they messed things up. Heart get filled with regrets.
I know you can list things that you may want in your partner and none come perfect but insecurity, is something you don`t want to nurse. I feel for woman most of the time because they don`t know how to break this out to their man. Because man turn to be stubborn and they don`t want to be told about their weaknesses. Bruising my ego is better than leaving me for dead. If your a woman, you might be scared that he might leave you or stop loving you or abuse you for stepping up and bruise his ego.
My sister, It`s better to tell him than constantly being abused. Because when the balls turns around and it`s you dealing with insecurity, trust me he won`t hesitate to tell you. He will even call you crazy. Something you know your not good to handle. No woman wants to be called crazy or stupid. The first step to any healing process is admitting. No one is born perfect and they will never be after that. You will be doing yourself a great help when you go out and get help.
What a beautiful society it will be when humans stop worrying about what the other person would say. Deal with your issues and do that just for you.
This comes because of lack of self believe. When one does not believe in themselves, a nut is a hard thing to crack. The possible becomes the impossible. He may tick all of your boxes because he is really that good but his insecure. He will accuse you of the worst while all you were doing was just for him. He may find you in the midst of male companies either friends or colleagues having a good time laughing and he might accuse you of cheating with one of them.
Insecurity is a disease. It can lead someone to commit suicide and jealousy becomes the branch that has the opportunity to bear fruit. Insecurity is a consuming fire. I can mention and identify a lot of bad things that goes in line with it. If one does not recognise this problem in their lives, what was supposed to be great will turn out to be not. Have you ever met someone who had the potential to become someone great or had an opportunity to be with someone great but they messed things up. Heart get filled with regrets.
I know you can list things that you may want in your partner and none come perfect but insecurity, is something you don`t want to nurse. I feel for woman most of the time because they don`t know how to break this out to their man. Because man turn to be stubborn and they don`t want to be told about their weaknesses. Bruising my ego is better than leaving me for dead. If your a woman, you might be scared that he might leave you or stop loving you or abuse you for stepping up and bruise his ego.
My sister, It`s better to tell him than constantly being abused. Because when the balls turns around and it`s you dealing with insecurity, trust me he won`t hesitate to tell you. He will even call you crazy. Something you know your not good to handle. No woman wants to be called crazy or stupid. The first step to any healing process is admitting. No one is born perfect and they will never be after that. You will be doing yourself a great help when you go out and get help.
What a beautiful society it will be when humans stop worrying about what the other person would say. Deal with your issues and do that just for you.
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